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Divorce can be a scary and stressful part of life. However, it is also becoming more prevalent in modern culture. One-third of first marriages end in divorce after 10 years. While there are many reasons to get divorced, domestic violence is an unfortunate reason for many couples. On top of the pressure and stress within the family, most divorce proceedings last about a year. Knowing your options and individual circumstances is an important part of beginning the divorce process.

While divorce is a necessary act for some couples, it can become a different monster when you have been the victim of domestic violence. There are many concerns surrounding any children or other loved ones who are involved, safety being number one. As a victim of domestic violence, it is important to know what resources you have at your disposal to keep you safe during the dissolution of a marriage.

When it comes to choosing a divorce lawyer, you will want to choose someone with a proven history of being aggressive. There is no time to be passive with the negotiation and mediation of divorce. When it comes down to child support, the distribution of marital property and spousal support, you’ll want someone in your corner who is not afraid to get their hands dirty on your behalf.

While mediated divorce may seem costly, it’s actually a cost-saving alternative to spending months working with attorneys in court. Mediated divorce allows for you and your soon-to-be ex-spouse come to agreeable terms on your own, with a third-party available to help with legal matters. Also, about two-thirds of couples who choose mediated divorce are happy with the whole process and the outcome.

Outside of the legal arena, it may be best to spend the time of the divorce proceedings at the home of a loved one or a shelter. Depending on the severity of the abuse, it may be necessary to involve the police. As a victim of domestic violence, keep in mind that there is no shame in asking for assistance. There are people who devote their lives to helping those who find themselves in an abusive relationship, ranging from social workers to attorneys. They are there to help in your time of need.